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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 15:15

How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Procrastinates a lot.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Why do I feel bad when I see white girls dating black guys, am I racist?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can you provide a list of cities named after animals and the animals they were named after?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What should I expect after a BBL surgery?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

There is any scientific evidence that we live in a sphere. Why do others say that we lives in a flat Earth but there is no evidence that they have proven the existence of a flat earth?

What I need from you?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

My marriage is fixed. My future husband repeatedly calls me to meet me in private and pressure me to have a relationship. What should I do?

Making more friends is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Ask yourself:

How many couples swap wives?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

That's it for today.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.